A weird conversation took place during dinner today. We were talking about flings and why girls do it. My friend said she would want a summer fling for just two months with no commitment whatsoever and then breaking up at the end of it. It was outrrageous! How can someone have such thoughts? It was even more outrageous coming out from her!
Why do people get hooked up on flings? No guarantees, no commitments and just pure fun for a short period of time. I dont understand such thoughts and desires. Why flings? Why let yourself through such turmoil of emotions without the intention to carry on? What happens after that? She suggested that a clear agreement is made at the beginning before anything begins. Each understands and accepts the conditions that there's no strings attached at the end of the relationship. Then what?
How can someone even think of such ideas? Call me conservative or whatever, I'm just not getting it. Another friend said I should loosen up a little and be open. Open to what? These? I rather be shut in forever! These are such selfish thoughts and lustful. To satisfy yourself and be happy when you have nothing to do and leave the relationship when something else comes up. How?
I'm not getting it.
1 comment:
yo sis.. ahha....that is how the world is right now, no longer having the moral standards that once were. You are not being conservative, you are being normal, but the world is getting crazier and those who are left being normal are now regarded as weird.. it isn't right, but hey at least we can look forward to the day that everything will be right...at the mean time.. lets not get pulled down by God's grace.
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