Sunday, September 02, 2007

Just got me thinking

I was browsing through some pages of some of my closest friends. I was looking at their uploaded photographs and some updates about themselves. Suddenly, I realised that I'm not in any of those. Which brought me to think that what sort of friend have I been? I mean, what kind of friends would there be if you're not even in their ongoing events in their lives.

I wonder why...

There are of course many school of thoughts with regards to this. Some say that being friends doesnt mean being with them 24/7. They would have events with other people in their lives too. Some suggest that perhaps we aren't that "friend-ful" either. But what about people whom you do not see often, but that freshness remains each time you meet up. Or what about those who have the best conversation when just seated silently together. Or those whom you just meet in meetings in church? What sort of friends would those be?

Just got me thinking.

I suspect I'm running into "some dunno-what's-the-name-psycological conditions".